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This post will be a little more personal in nature. Recently I went shopping with my 25 year old son, who is getting ready to embark on the grand adventure of marriage. Together we visited the jewelry stores. He was hoping to find the perfect engagement ring to give to his soon to be fiance (we were pretty sure she would say yes) and I was there to negotiate the best price. Finding the perfect ring we discuss the price. Once we get the price the store was ready to accept we now have to find out the best way to pay for this item.
Like many college students (he graduates this December as he worked full time his way through college) he didn’t have the amount saved because every penny counts. Having never had any credit since his car was paid for (thank you grandma and grandpa), as was his housing and other expenses we thought now would be a good time to begin to build it. After all the cost of the ring was not that bad and it would be a good way to get started on the way to responsible credit use. Getting his bonuses over the next six months and each of them could pay for the expense, he decided to fill out the application. After all, who knows a few years from now the next thing I hope to help him find is a new house (somewhere closer than 1900 miles away).
“I’m sorry, you weren’t approved,” the salesperson tells us. Crushed, he quickly becomes curious, and asked to see the denial.
Lesson no. 1 If denied credit always ask to see the written response, you may be surprised.
The denial says he has unpaid credit card bills and outstanding credit (not outstanding as in really good either!). But how can this be he asks. Other than his monthly cell phone bill he has not had any credit cards, no monthly payments. Not even student loans, because although he took one out his first year they are deferral because he is in school. “Mom! What do I do?”
Lesson no. 2 Run your credit report immediately. He can start with his free credit report, but considering these circumstances he may want to use a service like CreditSesame because they also offer additional services to help him stay on top of his credit rating.
We ran his credit report and now the work really begins. It’s time to clean it up. There are a number of different problems with it, from fraudulent use of his name, Social Security Number, creation of a new identity using his old address and of course the big problem, unpaid items of credit, whether it was a fast cash item or credit card. “How did this happen?” he wonders.
Lesson no. 3 It can happen a number of ways from old mail, credit card offers in the mail, his Social Security Number used at the college or even a so called friend or roommate which had access to his information. Stolen wallets, filled out forms, responding to spam messages, there are a whole number of different ways that this happens. Maybe he was just unlucky. Most identity theft takes bits and pieces of the true to create a “new you.” That’s where this gets messy.
What can you do? Now it’s time to take action. Either file a dispute through the credit monitoring service that you are using or grab some pen and paper and do it the old fashioned way. Either way you need to contact the credit reporting agencies with the information that is incorrect, correct it and include any proof that you may be able to provide.
Lesson. no 4 Some say you can file with just one agency and that all the information will be sent to all three. However, to be safe I recommended that my son send the information to each of them if he didn’t want to file it online.
Here are some sample letters to use when filing your dispute.
Should you take the snail mail route here are the mailing addresses for each of the three reporting agencies.
P.O. Box 6790
Fullerton, CA 92834
P.O. Box 9530
Allen, TX 75013
P.O. Box 740241
Atlanta, GA 30374
Remember mistakes can be made on anyone’s credit report but it has been reported that identity theft is on the rise for college students, so pass this information on to them so that they know what to do.